Highlife musician, Kwabena Kwabena, shared some insights on love and relationships with TV3 NewDay. The love crooner says that people will hurt you regardless of how well you love them, but the key to making this pain bearable is finding someone worth the pain.
One can say that Kwabena Kwabena has earned his right to dish out relationship advice after his public love affairs and divorces. He mentions that these experiences have taught him how to appreciate the love in a new way.
He was bitingly expressive when he spoke about what love means to him after two failed marriages: “I have grown to understand love in a different way. Loving somebody to allow them to be who they are, and you see them happy doing what makes them happy, and you are okay.”
Kwabena Kwabena also mentioned how love and pain are not exclusive. He pointed out that not managing our expectations in relations can lead to a letdown and subsequently hurting ourselves.
“Loving somebody has no expectations. It means you will love them regardless. So you better watch who you are going to love. Because the people you love will hurt you anyway, so look for someone who is worth it,” he concluded.
Source: 3news.com